Verbal Abuse: Name calling, blaming, yelling, making humiliating remarks.
Pressure Tactics: Rushing you to make decisions through “Guilt Trips”, threatening to withhold money, manipulating the children.
Abusing Authority: Always claiming to be right, making decisions for you.
Disrespect: Interrupting, changing the subject, twisting your words, putting you down in front of other people.
Abusing Trust: Lying, withholding information, cheating on you, and being overly jealous.
Breaking Promises: not following through on agreements, refusing to help with the children and housework.
Emotional Withholding: Not expressing feelings, not giving support, attention or compliments.
Minimizing, Denying and Blaming: Making light of behavior, saying abuse didn’t happen, shifting responsibility for the abuse.
Economic Control: Not letting you work, refusing to give you or take your money, taking your car keys.
Self-Destructive Behavior: Abusing alcohol or drugs, threatening suicide or other forms of self harm.
Isolation: Making it difficult for you to see friends and family, monitoring your phone calls, telling you where you can and can not go.
Harassment, Stalking: Making uninvited visits or calls, follows you, checks up on you, and embarrasses you in public.
Intimidation: Making angry or threatening gestures, use of physical size, driving reckless.
Destruction: Destroying your possessions, punching walls, throwing things.
Threats: Making and or carrying out threats to hurt you or others.
Sexual Violence: Degrading treatment, using force, threats, or coercion to obtain sex or perform sex acts.
Physical Violence: Being violent to your children, pets, or others. Slapping, punching, grabbing, pushing, kicking, biting and burning, etc.
Weapons: Use of weapons, keeping weapons around to frighten you.